Why should I change when they are the problem?
This can be a common belief or misconception depending on how you look at it. Why should you have to change, when you feel that it's someone else's behaviours that are impacting and causing the problem? "Help me to change them" can be a common request from clients frustrated by colleagues, a partner, a child or a family member that is quite frankly "doing their head in". This can also feel stressful, despairing or provoke anger for you. Those scenarios that crop up most comm